![]() ![]() It doesn’t hurt, but I do insist on a ton of lube and slow insertion. You can start with one small enough to deliver all the pleasure without any pain.” -Lizzie “I imagine it would hurt if you went for an enormous size right out of the gate, but…they usually come in a set of various sizes.But the warm-up with your fingers make it easier so that it doesn’t hurt-it’s actually a sensation you get used to quickly.” -Aarji “It would hurt if you didn’t properly prepare your bootyhole for it, yes.What does it feel like to use a butt plug? Does it hurt? Anal Foreplay Tips for All of You Booty Lovers.“I like to use plugs during sex and by myself, both for enhanced pleasure during masturbation/sex and to prepare for anal sex.” -Ruth, 22.“I like using my butt plug as a way to prep for anal sex with a strap-on.” -Elle, 27.It leads to some crazy, massive, explosive orgasms.” -Kennedy, 38 “Usually during doggy-style with a partner, I’ll have my butt plug in and I’ll hold a vibrator against my clit.I love using plugs, but a plug doesn’t usually get me to the finish line by itself.” -Sophie, 25 But I do always need some form of vaginal or clitoral stimulation while using a plug. “It totally depends on the day and whether I’m by myself or with my partner.“I like it while giving oral to my partner.” -Kaley*, 28.My boyfriend puts it in me and voilà.” -Anna*, 43 “I like to use it with my boyfriend while we’re doing other sexual things.” -Lizzie, 28.“Unpopular opinion, but during masturbation.Read on to hear from eight women about why they love their butt plugs and why you just might too. But if you do it well, anal play can be a life-changing experience. “There’s a lot of anxiety about the butt,” she adds. So even the ones who are more experimental and who might want to try having something in their ass, they might end up having pain and then avoiding it after that.” “That’s because sometimes it hurts, but that’s usually because people don’t do it well. “There’s a joke among sex therapists that women have anal sex only once,” she says with a laugh. She says even if it’s not that common for women to use butt plugs (only 32 percent of Cosmo readers report using a butt plug despite 82 percent saying they enjoy anal stimulation), the benefits, when done right, are worth the effort. Overall, Hirschman says, the thought of anal play may appeal to some women, but one or two bad experiences can easily scare them off. A Complete Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex.And if you use anal toys in your vagina, you risk contracting a UTI or yeast infection. Toys made for vaginas often don’t have bases, which means they can get stuck inside your body if inserted into the anus. Otherwise, Matatas and Hirschman agree: The most important health and safety tip is to keep butt stuff and vagina stuff completely separate. It’s good to have a conversation like, ‘If this happens, we’re gonna laugh about it and we’re gonna clean the sheets and then we’re gonna move on.’ There has to be a relaxed attitude about that for people to feel comfortable.” “If you’re playing in that area, you have to be ready for that. It’s not going to be perfectly clean, and that’s okay. Ultimately, Hirschman says, this is anal play we’re talking about here. You can also just shower after your last bowel movement. ![]() “If you want to flush yourself out, use a small enema bulb and flush it out with warm water over the toilet beforehand. “Douching with solutions can cause irritation and dry out the delicate anal tissue,” she says. To avoid any unwanted surprises, some people douche beforehand. “Analingus is really good, gentle, and relaxing,” she says, and perfect for getting you in the mood. Also, before inserting the butt plug, you or a partner should warm up the anus with plenty of external stimulation, whether it’s with a finger or a tongue. San Francisco–based sex expert and therapist Celeste Hirschman, MA, cofounder of the Somatica Method of sex, says it’s necessary to clean your butt plug thoroughly before and after use, in accordance with the toy’s instructions. “Using butt plugs helps you get to know how your booty reacts to penetration, gets you familiar with what angles or sensations feel good or not, and allows your anus to relax and open.”īut even just with a butt plug, there’s still a good deal of prep work that should be done. “Your anal sphincters and tissue need to be trained with gradual penetration or you increase your risk for anal fissures and injury,” she says. If you have an interest in trying anal sex with a penis or a dildo, Matatas says a butt plug is a great way to “train” your anus for penetration. Play icon The triangle icon that indicates to play ![]()
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